Validation

Let's get real. We all need validation because the majority of mankind, especially women, can be very hard on themselves. From the way we look to what was the last thing that came out of our mind and if it sounded smart or not.

We can go on pretending that we don't do this but why should we fool ourselves? We're doing the best we can fooling others for the most part aren't we? But, at the end of the day, this job shouldn't be one that we take on too long because, if I'm being honest, we're not all walking Angelina Jolies or Julia Roberts; we are not all professional and paid actors so why should we continue to pretend to be?

So instead of fantasizing about being the next wonderful Emma Stone who supposedly has no problems that we do not know of, why don't we deal with our own lives without thinking of every step we take and how we may not get validated?

I know it's much easier said than done I know. But, we need to live our lives for us right? So long as we approve of our own actions that shouldn't completely stop us from pursuing them.